There should be roles for men and women.
Men should be independent.
I am sure it influenced me greatly.
I want to be independent. I hope I will get less help from mom.
Ha..it is a problem for man..avoiding to become “skirt foot boy”.
Such image would facilitate me to train up myself and to make me stronger.
But at the same it put an obsatcle for me to seek help when necessary.
So…I will keep reflecting.
Recently my mom goes to L.A. visiting my aunts.
Many housework are left at home.
Of I am willing to take up most of it. And I enjoy it.
It’s good to find that I enjoy it.
So it is a great opportunity to train up those skills.
When she is at home I would never do those stuffs.
Sometimes she seems doing too much. I don’t feel I have a responsibility.
Disempowerment ..> Dependent??
I don’t know.
If I want to grow up, I must do more by myself.
Obviously such thought is the stereotype of those who are regarded as “grown up”…HAHA
Yes..I won’t deny I have that thought.
So..in the future I really want to learn cooking and domestic reparing.
A man need to know these, for his family.
HAHAHA!! Another gender issue.
